What to do if youre dating a mamas boy

While it's not a complete deal breaker, dating a mama's boy is a different kind of beast and requires a certain type of patience for any woman. Not only do you have someone to compete with, but you wonder if he'll ever put as much faith and trust in you as he does his mother. He makes you compete with her and makes it hard to get close to his family. This is strange, not only because you're probably pretty similar to his mother, but also because the only thing he really wants is for her to accept you.

If you have found yourself nodding vigorously to most of the points that I have put on their based on firsthand experience, then you must be wondering what exactly to do about it. It can be quite intimidating and claustrophobic again, no one is judging. However, it is necessary that you tell him how you feel, so that no resentment builds in your relationship. Because the more you try to become numero uno in his eyes, the more threatened his mother is likely to feel, and the more distant he is likely to grow from you. This poisons the relationship between all three of you, so it is best if you let things pan out by themselves instead of trying to overdo yourself to win the affection race. Sometimes, it so happens that your boyfriend loves you because he thinks you are exactly like his mother. Talk it out with him and make sure that there is no such misconception in his mind, and that he does expect you to behave like her in her absence.

Have you ever dated a guy and for the most part, things are good? Does it seem like she's always around, sticking her nose into your relationship? She's needy and constantly calls him no matter how minor or severe the crisis of the day.

Have you ever seen a grown man have his steak cut up by his mom at dinner? Have you ever seen him get his chin wiped off when he gets a little sauce on it? The thing about this is, until momma wants grandkids, no woman is ever going to be good enough for her boy. If your guy has a steady job, good pay, and is a well-adjusted human being and yet has failed to leave the nest, then his mother is taking far too good a care of him.